This is an ignored subject – now there’s a new book which highlights what men do feel and the pain and anguish of not having a whole range of experiences which leaves them on the sidelines isolated and cut out of many rich experiences. How do they suffer what happens to them and what are the consequences for their health and sense of a life well lived? Dr Robin Hadley’s illuminating and vital book just out covers this ‘How is a Man Supposed to be a Man? Male Childlessness – a life course disrupted’